The following is a modern parable of the deep and dangerous divide all men will inevitably confront.

This article considers the lengthening life expectancy of men compared to 100 years ago, the implications for those in the middle years, and how Coaching the Crossroads will engage these existential questions in 2025.

This article introduces the idea of a Hard-Time Check-In by offering tips for the everyday man who learns a friend or co-worker is in a difficult life situation. Most often men avoid and say nothing for fear of saying or doing the wrong thing. There are practical ways to help your friends know you give a sh*t.

Hard conversations are part of intimate and important relationships. The twin principles of honor and honesty can offer guidance in these conversations. This article gives three examples considering a hard conversation in the way we set-up and climb a ladder.

This article is a step-by-step guide to help men write a personal story for the Men’s Story Group, Men’s Story Group or the Ordinary Men and the Moments That Made Them podcast. Included is the personal example and process Mike used to prepare for the upcoming Men’s Story Night!

Men struggle to change reactive and instinctive responses when facing stress in intimate relationships. Often these reactions are self-preserving, hurtful and counter-productive. Police officers have learned how to re-train reactions in high-stressed situations and their advice can help men react in more purposeful ways.

One day we will find our self at a loss for words or direction due to a difficult loss or overwhelming event. This articles acknowledges this dark and heavy place offering observations around ritual, routine, rallying support, remembering and rest to help us find our way back to the light.

Men have difficulty pinpointing and giving priority to areas where grief is present in daily life. In this article numerous areas of loss and hurt are offered to help identify painful areas that impact decision-making and relationships. Suggestions are offered to reduce the ways these grief-events hinder fullness of life and offer men a fresh way forward.

Grief is unpleasant. Grief is elusive. Grief is confusing. Grief is uncomfortable. It can look like tears, anger, laughter, depression, manic activity, numbness and more. I want to offer a men’s primer on the experience of grief. Much more could be said than what I will cover but I want to offer what has been helpful for me in a topic I was mostly unaware for many decades.

This article offers some guidelines and exercises to improve what we share so that when we finally speak our audience is eager to listen. Men want to feel valued and connected and these 10 suggestions can elevate the value of what is shared with our spouse, children, small group and workmates.